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Janice Berkley's avatar

In August 1963 I turned 15. When President Kennedy was assassinated, I was the only student in my class who cried.But some of the boys were cheering so the teacher told all of us to be quiet and get back to work. In our Southern White school she was afraid that my emotions could provoke a backlash. Now I am 76 and I am tired. But for the sake of my grandchildren and all grandchildren, we cannot lose hope.

The difference between 1963 and now is that I am not alone. I again live in the Southern city, but we of like mind are somehow finding each other. Quietly, we meet one on one or two on two and affirm that hate is powerless to destroy love. Just this week I have sat in fellowship with a woman from Jordan, another from Pakistan, and one from Sudan. I have been with older White women who don’t speak out publicly and lesbians who do.

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I'm new here. I subscribed last week after realizing that online communities such as this share my values more than my own church. I share your grief Jemar (and fellow commenters). I have grieved alone in church before, but never in the presence of those who were actively celebrating that which I was grieving, so I haven't been back to church since the election. I know that I need like-minded believers in my real life, and I am trusting that God will lead and strengthen me.

Jemar, as to "How could man living under the daily threat of death have such an attitude?" I think it was a rhetorical question, but I'll answer it anyway: by abiding in the one who walked in perfect peace (and even joy) knowing the cross awaited him. It is that peace that passes understanding, and as my husband says, if you can understand it, it's not that true peace of God. In my 60 years, I have enjoyed peace by virtue of the country and ethnicity I was born into. In God's sovereignty, he is allowing those things to be shaken, and I expect really bad things ahead. Consequently, I expect my faith and courage to be tested, and if I do this right, the Lord's peace will more than compensate for the comfort I will have lost. I'm not that strong in the Lord, to be honest, but maybe in this community, we can draw a little bit of strength from each other to endure. Praying for you all today...

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