Now Is a Season of Self-Preparation
We cannot control external events, but we can control how we respond to them.
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For many of us, right now is not a time for outward action but a season of self-preparation.
We have a little less than two months until the incoming regime takes power.
As chaotic and concerning as the weeks since the election have been, we will see even more intense events once the 47th president is officially sworn in.
We cannot predict exactly what will happen over the next four years, but we can cultivate the habits and mindsets that will help sustain us for whatever comes next.
What Is Self-Preparation?
We cannot always anticipate control what will happen in life. What we do have power over is how we respond to what happens.
Self-preparation is the deliberate process of envisioning what virtues and actions we want to display in times of intense negative stress.
These stressor are not ones we can entirely prevent, but we can develop the resilience and resolve to deal with them without abandoning our principles or health.
In relation to the incoming administration, we know what the president-elect and his proposed officials have promised.
Mass deportations. Exorbitant tariffs. More tax breaks for the wealthiest class. The dismantling of basic government departments and functions.
Half the electorate deliberately did not vote for these policies and the other will find out they are in for much more hardship than they anticipated.
This is all sobering news. Our one advantage is that we know it is coming.
The Challenge of Self-Preparation
Self-preparation requires introspection.
It is a process of looking inward to identify our most important values and commitments so we can hold fast to them when life become more tumultuous.
While examining ourselves may sound simple, it is difficult for at least three reasons.
First, many people are not accustomed to dwelling with themselves long enough to hear their own inner voice amid the cacophony that surrounds them.
We live in a society that offers constant distraction—smart phones with dozens of apps, social media with endless scrolling, a 24-hour news cycle, on-demand entertainment, and more.
Self-preparation requires the will and discipline to purposely set aside distractions so we can listen to our thoughts and intuition.
Second, self-examination is difficult because many of us who are concerned about justice feel the tug toward external action.
Unless we are organizing, protesting, or speaking out it feels as if we are not doing anything.
Even when we are still reeling from the emotional tumult of an electoral defeat, there are voices inside and out calling us to activism.
It takes confidence and conviction to believe that the time we spend going inward is essential to our outward work.
Third, self-preparation is made difficult because we simply do not know how to do it.
Even if we are able to avoid distractions and make space to tarry with our own musings, what we do with the time?
We can find ourselves fidgeting, minds wandering, and end up feeling more frustrated than we began because we have nothing to “show” for the effort.
Self-preparation is not for the faint-hearted but for the fearless.
How to Prepare Yourself
I did not know it at the time, but the past several years and, especially the past few months, have been preparing me for the next season of struggle and unpredictability.
I had already formed a habit of moving my body each day, especially outdoors. I have been journaling by hand daily for at least 30 minutes for the last nine months. I’ve been seeing a therapist and getting in tune with my inner compass.
You can, too.
The following are some questions and ideas for your own self-preparation. I encourage you to think about these as you spend time outside, and write them down (longhand, if possible) to have as a record for future reference.
Questions for Reflection:
How do I want people to remember about how I showed up in this time of national and political strife? What do I want my legacy to be?
What values and virtues do I most want to display—faith, courage, imagination, resilience, charity, temperance, gratitude, etc.? What are specific actions that demonstrate those values?
How do I want to consume news when there will likely be a constant deluge of new information? What are a few news sources I will check regularly?
How do I recharge and rejuvenate even when the world is still in crisis? What practices sustain me even while the storm rages?
Who are my people? How can I reach out to them right now so we stay in regular, life-giving communication over the coming months and years?
What people or circumstances do I need to avoid for my own well-being? This does not necessarily mean cutting them out of my life completely, but knowing how much I can handle and when.
What will be my cause or my issue in the realm of justice? I can’t make a positive difference in every area that demands it, but I can focus my time in one or a couple areas. What are they?
How can I create margin in my schedule? It is possible that national events will require me to spend more time on a justice cause or even simply require more time to tend to my own health. How can I delete or delegate duties so that I will have unscheduled time to address new circumstances?
What books and music will I read or listen to when I need art to remind me of beauty and help me tap into different emotions?
What Bible verses or stories can I look to for spiritual strength and inspiration when I need it?
I am deeply convinced that community will be key during the next presidential administration.
One idea is to gather a trusted group—in-person or online—and discuss these questions together. Gain ideas and inspiration from one another and remind each other of your commitments regularly.
The time for more external action will come soon enough. Let’s use the moments we have now for the self-preparation that will enable the activism necessary to create a more perfect union.
Let’s start the process now. Choose one of the questions above and formulate a response. Share those thoughts with us in the comments below.
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I so much appreciate you sharing your thoughts while refraining from offering quick fixes when there aren’t any. And I also appreciate the thoughtful comments. I am a 76-year-old White woman in a deep red Southern state. I have no one in my current or previous church who is even close to relating to my perspectives or feelings. Thankfully, my siblings, adult children, and young adult grandchildren know insanity when they see it so all of us are pulling closer even though we disagree on many things. Ironically, I am finding support in secular community groups like a dog rescue and programs for us caregivers of loved ones with dementia. At this season in life, it is pretty obvious that my role is to provide a safe home where we welcome younger people from various cultures. God did not give me a gift of tongues, but he gave me the gift of understanding English spoken with various accents. So what starts as grammar lessons at my dining room table evolves into women sharing their hearts and their tears.
I can control my fears when I am awake, but some mornings, like today, I wake up agitated and know my dreams are of a frightening future.
All of this is to say that this group is becoming important to me.
Thanks for this post!
Starting to contemplate the questions and will craft responses.
One thing I am sure of is this: The incoming criminal commander in chief WILL NOT become the locus of my life and work.
Following this text: "And let the peace of Christ rule (govern) in your hearts..." (Col. 3:15)
Also, "Do not fret because of evildoers, Nor be envious of the workers of iniquity....Rest in the Lord, and wait patiently for Him; Do not fret because of him who prospers in his way. Refrain from anger and turn from wrath; do not fret—it leads only to harm." (Psalms 37:1,7-8)
I have lost confidence in the USA electorate. There is no collective wisdom, only inattentive people making decisions in self-interest based on false information. Will always vote, but voting isn't the answer it use to be.
Obviously, he can't get much done through slim majorities in congress, so he will resort to authoritarian executive orders.
I'm going to trust Democrats and sensible Republicans to try to hold him accountable and limit his damage. I'll be paying as little attention as possible to this administration and to the news media.
"I will not set before my eyes anything that is worthless. I hate the work of those who fall away; it shall not cling to me." (Psalms 101:3 ESV)
Been building stronger community with people I know and trust. Only listening to trusted voices like yours, Dr. Jones, Stacy Abrams, and similar.
I intend to try to inspire and educate others, especially the next generation.